keep trying for him or let him go? )=?
Ok its too long to tell you what happend but yea, we argued almsot everyday so he ended it. Since we finished nothing has been the same. We hardly speak, maybe once every 2 weeks or so
But since ending it he has asked me out twice and days later would say he was confused, didnt know what he wanted and then ended it again. He kept telling me that me and him will get back together so this was stopping me from moving on but at the same time i was happy because i thought he would get back with me, but he lied. Last week he told me he will never again so why couldnt he just tell me that back then? ughh..he said he doesnt like me in that way anymore so i should do the same and forget him and move on. I have tried but its so hard. Hes been telling me to stop trying to get him back because he will never again. We argued last week after talking and he told me to leave him alone and never talk to him again. He has been telling me to leave him alone for weeks. Sometimes i would but he would end up texting me and id always go running back to him.
Im from kent and hes from nottingham so we live like 3hrs away from eachother. I used to live there but moved back here when my father passed away in april. So we only see eachother when we plan to, id go up there by train for the weekend and he would come here. I havent seen him since september and i just really wanna see him. But ill never see him again and im so upset. He told me last week when we spoke on the phone that he hates me and me and him can be facebook friends but nothing more, its either that or nothing so i said nothing then because i cant just talk to him on facebook as friends and never see him again. So he said whatever and that was it. He doesnt care if we talk again. Well he has blocked me on msn and facebook but i emailed him on msn erlier and asked him to add me back on facebook because im ready to be his friend. Im not but i cant go any longer without speaking to him. He hasnt replied yet but i know he wont add me back, he will say something like “no this is the end, i dont even want to talk to you anymore so go away bla bla bla”. He might though i dont know but either way im going to be upset. For the past week iv been trying to be strong and take my mind off him, but when im home alone ill think about him and think about never seeing or talking to him again and it hurts so bad. I did say to myself that i am going to get over im and leave him alone like he wants but it makes me so upset that me and him wont see eachother again. He told me last week that i should come but as friends then he said no dont i dont want to see you again because il only like you again and so on.
So im just wondering, if he does add me back on facebook and we speak again, could he like me again and want to see me again if we stop all the arguing and get on? I just want him to want me again
I know its not going to happen overnight, it will take ages for him to like me again because me and him went through hell. But if it takes that long maybe he will just start to like me as a friend and not want to be with me again. He told me few weeks ago he likes some other girl at his college. So can he get to like me again?Or if i keep this up and leave him alone, will i stop being sad over him? When i think about not talking or seeing him again will i stop getting upset? Its kills me when i think about this and i cant help it. Please help im well down
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It does sound like he is interested in another girl and she’s nearer to him than you. you should not bother about him, forget him and move on and meet other boys, he feels you are just running after him when he just wants to move on. don’t waste your time with him doll, you say you lost your dad and your ex-boyfriend doesn’t show any compassion. don’t bother to be his friend on facebook, its only for friends
If i was you id do this:
If he adds you back on facebook speak to him but try not to talk to him everyday. But when you do speak to him be really sweet, make him fall in love with you all over again. Sometimes relationships are better off the second time round.
But at the same time as this, get out, go and meet new people. Get to like someone else because if your ex still doesnt want you back after a few weeks/months, then you wont be that hurt.
He can like you again but i doubt he will now because he has made it pretty clear that he wont ever get back with you again. But you never know, if you talk to him he might like you all over again.
I think you two should just stay friends. It will get easier.
Obviously that guy is a JERK seriously I mean common who would want to be with a guy who is telling you all these mean things? I know I wouldn’t he doesn’t deserve a girl who is going to love him because he just doesn’t care about you. It seems to me like he is just messing with your head and trying to make you more miserable then you already are. Its time for you to move on. There are PLENTY of guys out there who are looking for a girl too love them and be there for them, this loser just likes playing games so skew him and you should look for another guy, it wont be the end of the world. Later on in the future your going to realize that he was just a waste of time. You guys also live kinda far from each other so find a guy who lives in your town. Be strong and get over that jerk. If he tries to talk to you just ignore him and he will see that you have moved and you don’t care for him that’s when he’ll stop playing his stupid games. You could do it just be strong.k Everything will be okay.
There are so many people who have been through similar experiences. The best thing for you to do right now is focus on yourself. Live your own life and forget about him for a while! If he wants to remain friends and you’ve had time to clear your mind, that’s okay. But as soon as he starts acting immature and playing head games, tell him you dont want to talk to him. You have to stay strong and keep your mind on going forward, not back. Just because he “never” wants to see you again, doesn’t mean he won’t. Things change, people change…you never know what will happen after he’s had the opportunity to think things throughout without you. Just be true to yourself and understand that you need someone who is worth it and not a person who is so unsure at this time. I think that regardless, you both need the space to do some self exploring and figure out what is best for you !
Dont be his friend on facebook. You need to forget him now. If he wanted to talk to you he would make the first move. If he does he will unblock you on facebook and msn. But he hasnt so isnt that telling you something? He said he likes someone else, and plus she lives near him. I know its hard and you will have some good days and some bad. Some days you will be happy and think hes not worth it, you dont want to talk to him again then other days you will be down, wanting to run after him but you cant! You have done it a week so why not go on for another week? It will get easier you just got to give it time. It has only been a week. He is cleary screweing with your head and playing mind games with you. He sounds really immature so let him go. I know you feel upset about not seeing him again now, but when you are completely over him you wont care about that. There are plenty of other guys out there who would love someone like you =)